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Wednesday, October 29, 2008

The Mysterious Search

Many times people spend their entire lifetime in a never ending search for happiness, or what they want from life, never quite being able to find, or hold it. Sometimes lightly touching it for short fleeting moments, but never able to totally grasp it, and keep it for their own. Feverishly searching high, low, above and below, in every nook and cranny, always believing if they could just have, or accomplish this one thing, they would then be happy and content…only to discover that when they possess it, the happiness somehow once again, mysteriously eludes them. A heart with a hidden hole, that can never stay filled.

But all the while they are agitatedly searching all around them, all along it was following them everywhere that they went, in the one place they neglected to look, but was there all along.

For they have never come face to face with the mysteries that lay within, and the choice to just be.

2 Love note(s):

Jackie said...: Oh how very true this is. If only more could and would come to understand this.

I searched for years. Many years wasted in the stupidity of my youth.

But with age and maturity I thank God that I finally got it!!

Great post!!:-))); October 30, 2008 at 3:37 PM
Anonymoussaid...: Somehow I feel that time is moving too fast for me and yet, no one comes in my way. Well, there is still hope though, but soon really, I would stop searching and maybe be just satisfied knowing the fact that I'm happy whether or not I have a partner.; December 19, 2008 at 6:11 AM